I'm a Amdavadi now!

Hello!
So many days passed since I had been here. And so many changes occurred in my life. Out of these changes two most important changes are my status and my current city. My marital status changed from single to married and I got moved from east to west. Yes I moved from Bengal to Gujarat. After settling down things I get the chance to write for my blog, my own blog. A good side for writing blogs is you can write what you want to write, what your heart wants. It's a good platform for amateur writers.

I think these days in Ahmedabad are helping me to be more practical and more self sufficient. Because I have managed to do all the household chores and buying things that needs to run the household myself. I'm really happy that I can do all these things myself as I never did these before. I have made few new friends here. One of them is really nice. I'll write about it another day and keep writing about other things also. Till then stay happy and do what you really love to do.

It's never too late to make a fresh start. Good wishes to all of you.

Thank you for reading my post.

With love,
Anwesa

3 things that keep me going

I have been thinking through out the evening about what I should write today for my blog post. After so much thinking, I just get the idea and blaming myself how stupid I am! As I have taken too much time to think about the topic. It's nothing but Nablopamo writimg prompts! It's all about what are three things that keep myself going.


1. The most important thing that keep myself going is my dream. It's the thing for what we have good gestures to fulfill our wishes. My dreams always whispers to me 'do this' or 'do that'.You can never keep yourself going if you have no dream. It continuously pushes us to carry out our doings. It wakes us up in the morning, forces us to burn our midnight oil.

2. Another important thing is love. It is something so charming, so magical. I always love to do what my loved people wants. Because  I love them and want to make them happy. It pushes myself to do something that I never did before. That's the magic of love.

3. According to my views the last one is my habit. It tells me 'it is the time to do this'. Most of everyday chores we do because of it.

That's all friends. See you soon!

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

Love, Laugh and Live

Yes, it's all about three Ls. Love, laugh and live. Really these three Ls are very important in our life. 

Let's come to the first L. Love someone. Someone can be your partner, father, mother, brother, sister or pet. No matter to whom you love but love. Love is magical by its very nature. Though it may seem like a mere-four-letter-word but it's truly magical. It keeps your mind healthy, evergreen. If you love someone you can feel this and don't forget to tell me how it feels like. :) 

You don't need a big reason to laugh. You can laugh even if you don't have a so called reason, of course if you want to. If you are a serious person all the time and don't like grinning much try to laugh this time. Well, there is no problem if you haven't started it yet, start now. You can feel a change within you something you never experienced ago. It keeps you happy and jovial all the time.

It's the time of third L. Recently somewhere I have come across this precious sentence ' If you die today, tomorrow two. ' This means if you die today, tomorrow will be second day of your death. F-E-A-R has two meanings. ' Forget Everything And Run ' and ' Face Everything And Rise '. Choice is yours. Life by its very nature has ups and downs. But there is no meaning of dying everyday. Live your life. Live life to the fullest!

And yes, if you haven't used these three Ls in your life yet, use now. This is perfect time to use. All the best!

Love!
Anwesa

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

 

What your mind wants!

Hi!

And I'm back! I must admit the leave was long, but you know it's better late than never :). 

 Let us come to the topic of my post. It is about something the words of mind, more precisely what your mind wants. At the end of the day the thing matters is your mind's wish. Never carry others' wishes, you must feel it as a burden, carry your own.It will bring your inner peace.You may compromise with your mind's wish for others peace. But never do that at least in some cases. ( Well, I admit they have done much for you and you're forever indebted, still. ). You can never be happy. You can never find your inner peace. At the end of life you must think what I did for myself through out the life or why I don't listen the words of my mind. So, listen what your mind wants.

 Sometimes you may feel how it is possible to go against others' wishes who are so close to you. But listen to me you can! It's possible of course. Just need a little will. Nothing is that difficult.

 That's all friends! I will be back soon. Till then take care of yourself. All the best!

Love,
Anwesa

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay
 
 

Book Review: It Happens For A Reason

After completing 'It Happens For A Reason' by Preeti Shenoy, I promptly logged in to let you know how much I liked her new novel. Preeti ma'am used to write so damn good, that I get stuck to her write ups whatever she writes.I loved her way of thinking very much, some are really innovative and deserves praises as well.

Vee is the protagonist, who is 'over independent' in Suchi's word , who is 'soul sister' of Vee. Preeti Shenoy drew a character again within Vee who let you force to think for a while about how independent are you or how much brave are you. She is a single mother. In our country such decision to be a single mother is not everyone's cup of tea. You need to be much brave at all to take such a decision. She is truly an inspiration to us. She is owner of 'Paw-Factor' as well. Such a career is not well known in our country. I liked this thing very much too.If you haven't read it yet, read it now.I really recommend you to read it.

Here goes to my rating - 4.5/5 

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

To those who are homemakers........

Are you a homemaker? Please don't tell that you are a housewife.I don't like that term.Because you are an individual yourself, not mere someone's wife.Whatever, I am coming to the topic.

A homemaker is someone who meticulously does regular works of household, takes care of her kids, husband, in laws simultaneously.Without she the home becomes somewhat like a desert.She is someone who fulfills the 'home' in the true sense.

But there is something to think, to discuss.You should devote your entire life to take care of your kids,husband and in laws.Is it right? I think it shouldn't.Because you are an individual yourself, that I already mentioned.You have dreams, passions, hobbies.There is only one life.Do something for your own pleasure too.(Please don't think that that I'm forbidding you to take care of them.I'm not that stupid.Never forget to do what is your duty.) Can you memorize what was your dream in student life? Or what were your passions?I know you can.Now stop dreaming and start pursuing.If you want to pursue higher academic degrees enroll yourself in open universities.Or if you want to play guitar you may enroll your name to a guitar class.Or if you love to write you may join in a creative writing course.But start doing.I can tell you that you would feel really better.You will find your own world.

Please keep some time only for yourself from every day's routine.You would see that the dreams what were black and white turns into colorful gradually.

My all best wishes to all of you!

Anwesa 
©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

To the all who have an aspire to become an author

Hey there!

How has all of you been?I am fabulously well :)Just now I got an idea about my blog post.Have a dream to become an author?Then have a look here.I am writing today for all aspiring authors.

Let see what advices are given by  great authors.

Preeti Shenoy :


"If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read.Read, read and read.Make your reading wide and varied.Read everything you can lay your hands on.And then write.Write about anything.Write about everything.Write about nothing.But write.
That's the only way to become a writer."

Kiran Manral :

" Keep reading and keep writing. Write something every single day. No matter what."

Fatima Bhutto :

" Rewrite, rewrite, rewrite. Don’t be attached to anything, everything is improved by revision."

So,Keep reading and keep writing.Write down what is on your mind.But write.
Never give up.Sometimes you can't express what you want to say.But never break down.Try again.Grab your dreams tightly as much as you can.Life is very short to be a pessimist.Learn to see dream and learn to chase them until you achieve them.

All the very best!

Your criticism will matter immensely.Drop comment what you think about my write ups.

Love,
Anwesa  
  

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write. - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write.

That's the only way to become a writer! - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write.

That's the only way to become a writer! - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

 

5 ways to make your life better

Folks!

Today I am writing about a new topic.When an extrovert one has to face unwanted situation sometimes,the introvert one doesn't face those.

You love and really care for your friends or relatives but they haven't possesses such kind of feelings to you.Sometimes it happens.You tell them a very much simple words but they are ready to turn them into complex one.Well,I know you didn't want to tell them in that way.

I am trying to sum up what you should do and shouldn't do.

1.Keep contact with selective friends and relatives who really loves you and care for you.Even if you tell them something angrily they understand your situation and hold your shoulder.
2.Never interact with those people who have born to mix complexity.
3.Maintain a sincere distance to those who did misconduct with you and hurt you.
4.Spend your days with yourself and your dreams.
5.Last of all try to become your best friend always.

I can tell you that your life will be better if you maintain a safe distance from such kind of peoples.

Please tell me what you feel about my write-ups.Don't forget to tell me criticize my write-ups.

Thank to all of you.

Anwesa 


 

Hey ! Hey ! I'm back :)

Hey folks!

How have you been?I am back after a long leave :) But come back to my sweet blogging world again.

I went to Andaman for a trip and did a stay for seven days.This is that what was called earlier 'Kaala-paani' !This is that what was famous for 'Cellular Jail' which is a big prove of British brutality.

Andaman has beautiful natural view also.Do you know what is the punch line of Andaman and Nicobar Tourism? It is 'Emerald. Blue. And you.' It is really so true.Andaman is truly awesome by its very nature.Wonderful sea will make you astonished.Andaman has really something that will mesmerize you and make you to come back again.

Will soon write a blog regarding my travel experience with snaps (if possible) .I am telling you if you hadn't gone to Andaman till now make it sure to go there once.I can tell that you will be totally humbled :)

Thank to all of you.Will come back soon.Till then keep reading and writing.And don't forget to leave comment.

Love,
Anwesa

Epilogue of Valentines day!

Hey there!

So,how was your Valentines day?How it went off?Are you too excited or too frustrated about it?If it went off fabulously well then it is too good :) But if not,there is no reason to get frustrated!(Well, I know there is hundred reasons to be frustrated but still.)

If there is no guy for you or the guy doesn't get back to you,accept it.

1.Lead your own life with what you dream off till now.

2.Work hard to accomplish your dreams.

3.Grab your dreams with your two hands as tight as you can.

4.Spend some quality time with your family and friends.

5.There is no reason to destroy your future just because of there is no guy for you.What the hell are you doing? Never give up.Try,try and try.You can!
 And yes,I believe that there is someone for everyone in this world.So,move on!

Hope it will help you :)
Please leave comment regarding my post.Your opinions will matter.

Much love!
Anwesa

 

Fight with valour!

Folks,

Today I want to tell you about something when stuffs go wrong with you.

When your nearest persons misunderstands, you must be feel exhausted.You want to tell them something what you want or what you dream of.But they doesn't want to hear from you anything.What to do?I know that then your griefs and sorrows has no bound.But never break down.Never give up.Never belittle your colorful dreams which you dream of always.You should have faith in yourself.If you want something from the bottom of your heart you can!Never waste your time.Do utilize it properly.And work hard.Move on with your best endeavor.Hard work and perseverance - these two are only way to be successful.

Hope you will be successful in life!All the very best to all of you!

Much love,
Anwesa

How to manage yourself when people belittle your ambitions!

Hi there!
Hope your days goes off fabulously well with your dreams.I think to live properly aims,dreams or ambitions are very important.Aren't they?It is already February.Are your resolutions going through the right paths?Never let them lose.Never.Everyone has only one life.Live life to the fullest.I am telling you if you have thousands reasons for disappointments.Please never say die.Try once again to achieve your ambitions.If you fail,again try,if you again fail,again try.Try from the bottom of your heart.You can!Never get disappointed.

Keep away from people who belittle your ambitions. Small people do that, but the great ones make you feel that you can become great.Never lose faith by their words.Just move on!Always believe from the heart that you too can.Always be confident about the fulfillment of your dreams.

Never give up,just hold on!Keep chasing after your dreams.You too can!

Love,
Anwesa

Make your home stunning and gorgeous!

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Li Na:New Australian Open Champion!

Hi there,

Hope you have watched Australian Open Women singles final 2014.Li Na is the new winner of Australian Open.She becomes third time lucky to win the GRAND SLAM.It is her second Grand Slam title.Her t-shirt says "Your heart has no limit".The words actually what her says.Isn't is?She deserves this!She is so determined player.I enjoy a lot her tennis.

Do we ever think that how much determination,how much perspiration,how much hard work requires to win a Grand Slam?She underwent so much hard work.She played so well today.She says "Thanks for Carlos always believing I can do well, especially in winter training, we worked so hard." after win.Don't know how well she feels now after winning!In her own words "Age is nothing, can still win the Grand Slam, pretty happy about my age, more experience."

Don't forget to drop a comment!

Love,

Anwesa

“We tell ourselves stories in order to live”

Hey guys,

Women's Web is conducting an writing contest in the month of January,2014 like each month.And here is the tweet of them regarding this issue.
'And here's your writing prompt: “We tell ourselves stories in order to live”. http://www.womensweb.in/articles/writing-theme-january-2014/ …'
So,what's you are waiting for?It is a good platform for budding authors.no doubt.
I feel very nice if I can take part into it.But there is a problem,I am too much busy now with my study.Time is a major factor.
Hey friends,please give your comments regarding my blog post.Your comment will matter.

Thanks and much love.

Anwesa

Let's introduce with me.

I am Anwesa Chattopadhyay,a Bengali girl badly trying to be self dependent and searching the clay under my feet.I am an avid reader,travel lover.Love to read Preeti Shenoy most.Die hard fan of Preeti ma'am.I am deeply moved by her.Want to meet her one day.Have an aspire that I will be an author one day.Wanna to be triumphant in my own way.In fact coming to the blogging world was not a planned decision,it occurs suddenly.I want to fulfill my 'The Secret Wish List' in 2014.And want to yell everyone that 'Yes I did it.Let's see.'Today is the very first day in the blogging world.I am a newcomer here.Please guide me how to manage my blog.I am waiting for your reply guys.

Leave comment for my post.Your comment will matter.

Thank you.

Anwesa