What your mind wants!

Hi!

And I'm back! I must admit the leave was long, but you know it's better late than never :). 

 Let us come to the topic of my post. It is about something the words of mind, more precisely what your mind wants. At the end of the day the thing matters is your mind's wish. Never carry others' wishes, you must feel it as a burden, carry your own.It will bring your inner peace.You may compromise with your mind's wish for others peace. But never do that at least in some cases. ( Well, I admit they have done much for you and you're forever indebted, still. ). You can never be happy. You can never find your inner peace. At the end of life you must think what I did for myself through out the life or why I don't listen the words of my mind. So, listen what your mind wants.

 Sometimes you may feel how it is possible to go against others' wishes who are so close to you. But listen to me you can! It's possible of course. Just need a little will. Nothing is that difficult.

 That's all friends! I will be back soon. Till then take care of yourself. All the best!

Love,
Anwesa

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay
 
 

Book Review: It Happens For A Reason

After completing 'It Happens For A Reason' by Preeti Shenoy, I promptly logged in to let you know how much I liked her new novel. Preeti ma'am used to write so damn good, that I get stuck to her write ups whatever she writes.I loved her way of thinking very much, some are really innovative and deserves praises as well.

Vee is the protagonist, who is 'over independent' in Suchi's word , who is 'soul sister' of Vee. Preeti Shenoy drew a character again within Vee who let you force to think for a while about how independent are you or how much brave are you. She is a single mother. In our country such decision to be a single mother is not everyone's cup of tea. You need to be much brave at all to take such a decision. She is truly an inspiration to us. She is owner of 'Paw-Factor' as well. Such a career is not well known in our country. I liked this thing very much too.If you haven't read it yet, read it now.I really recommend you to read it.

Here goes to my rating - 4.5/5 

©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

To those who are homemakers........

Are you a homemaker? Please don't tell that you are a housewife.I don't like that term.Because you are an individual yourself, not mere someone's wife.Whatever, I am coming to the topic.

A homemaker is someone who meticulously does regular works of household, takes care of her kids, husband, in laws simultaneously.Without she the home becomes somewhat like a desert.She is someone who fulfills the 'home' in the true sense.

But there is something to think, to discuss.You should devote your entire life to take care of your kids,husband and in laws.Is it right? I think it shouldn't.Because you are an individual yourself, that I already mentioned.You have dreams, passions, hobbies.There is only one life.Do something for your own pleasure too.(Please don't think that that I'm forbidding you to take care of them.I'm not that stupid.Never forget to do what is your duty.) Can you memorize what was your dream in student life? Or what were your passions?I know you can.Now stop dreaming and start pursuing.If you want to pursue higher academic degrees enroll yourself in open universities.Or if you want to play guitar you may enroll your name to a guitar class.Or if you love to write you may join in a creative writing course.But start doing.I can tell you that you would feel really better.You will find your own world.

Please keep some time only for yourself from every day's routine.You would see that the dreams what were black and white turns into colorful gradually.

My all best wishes to all of you!

Anwesa 
©Anwesa Chattopadhyay

To the all who have an aspire to become an author

Hey there!

How has all of you been?I am fabulously well :)Just now I got an idea about my blog post.Have a dream to become an author?Then have a look here.I am writing today for all aspiring authors.

Let see what advices are given by  great authors.

Preeti Shenoy :


"If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read.Read, read and read.Make your reading wide and varied.Read everything you can lay your hands on.And then write.Write about anything.Write about everything.Write about nothing.But write.
That's the only way to become a writer."

Kiran Manral :

" Keep reading and keep writing. Write something every single day. No matter what."

Fatima Bhutto :

" Rewrite, rewrite, rewrite. Don’t be attached to anything, everything is improved by revision."

So,Keep reading and keep writing.Write down what is on your mind.But write.
Never give up.Sometimes you can't express what you want to say.But never break down.Try again.Grab your dreams tightly as much as you can.Life is very short to be a pessimist.Learn to see dream and learn to chase them until you achieve them.

All the very best!

Your criticism will matter immensely.Drop comment what you think about my write ups.

Love,
Anwesa  
  

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write. - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write.

That's the only way to become a writer! - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

If you want to write, the best way would be to start to read. Read, read and read. Make your reading wide and varied. Read everything you can lay your hands on. And then write. Write about anything. Write about everything. Write about nothing. But write.

That's the only way to become a writer! - See more at: http://blog.preetishenoy.com/2014/01/where-to-find-inspiration-for-writing.html#sthash.x7WW0Fu9.dpuf

 

5 ways to make your life better

Folks!

Today I am writing about a new topic.When an extrovert one has to face unwanted situation sometimes,the introvert one doesn't face those.

You love and really care for your friends or relatives but they haven't possesses such kind of feelings to you.Sometimes it happens.You tell them a very much simple words but they are ready to turn them into complex one.Well,I know you didn't want to tell them in that way.

I am trying to sum up what you should do and shouldn't do.

1.Keep contact with selective friends and relatives who really loves you and care for you.Even if you tell them something angrily they understand your situation and hold your shoulder.
2.Never interact with those people who have born to mix complexity.
3.Maintain a sincere distance to those who did misconduct with you and hurt you.
4.Spend your days with yourself and your dreams.
5.Last of all try to become your best friend always.

I can tell you that your life will be better if you maintain a safe distance from such kind of peoples.

Please tell me what you feel about my write-ups.Don't forget to tell me criticize my write-ups.

Thank to all of you.

Anwesa 


 

Hey ! Hey ! I'm back :)

Hey folks!

How have you been?I am back after a long leave :) But come back to my sweet blogging world again.

I went to Andaman for a trip and did a stay for seven days.This is that what was called earlier 'Kaala-paani' !This is that what was famous for 'Cellular Jail' which is a big prove of British brutality.

Andaman has beautiful natural view also.Do you know what is the punch line of Andaman and Nicobar Tourism? It is 'Emerald. Blue. And you.' It is really so true.Andaman is truly awesome by its very nature.Wonderful sea will make you astonished.Andaman has really something that will mesmerize you and make you to come back again.

Will soon write a blog regarding my travel experience with snaps (if possible) .I am telling you if you hadn't gone to Andaman till now make it sure to go there once.I can tell that you will be totally humbled :)

Thank to all of you.Will come back soon.Till then keep reading and writing.And don't forget to leave comment.

Love,
Anwesa

Epilogue of Valentines day!

Hey there!

So,how was your Valentines day?How it went off?Are you too excited or too frustrated about it?If it went off fabulously well then it is too good :) But if not,there is no reason to get frustrated!(Well, I know there is hundred reasons to be frustrated but still.)

If there is no guy for you or the guy doesn't get back to you,accept it.

1.Lead your own life with what you dream off till now.

2.Work hard to accomplish your dreams.

3.Grab your dreams with your two hands as tight as you can.

4.Spend some quality time with your family and friends.

5.There is no reason to destroy your future just because of there is no guy for you.What the hell are you doing? Never give up.Try,try and try.You can!
 And yes,I believe that there is someone for everyone in this world.So,move on!

Hope it will help you :)
Please leave comment regarding my post.Your opinions will matter.

Much love!
Anwesa