Are you a homemaker? Please don't tell that you are a housewife.I don't like that term.Because you are an individual yourself, not mere someone's wife.Whatever, I am coming to the topic.
A homemaker is someone who meticulously does regular works of household, takes care of her kids, husband, in laws simultaneously.Without she the home becomes somewhat like a desert.She is someone who fulfills the 'home' in the true sense.
But there is something to think, to discuss.You should devote your entire life to take care of your kids,husband and in laws.Is it right? I think it shouldn't.Because you are an individual yourself, that I already mentioned.You have dreams, passions, hobbies.There is only one life.Do something for your own pleasure too.(Please don't think that that I'm forbidding you to take care of them.I'm not that stupid.Never forget to do what is your duty.) Can you memorize what was your dream in student life? Or what were your passions?I know you can.Now stop dreaming and start pursuing.If you want to pursue higher academic degrees enroll yourself in open universities.Or if you want to play guitar you may enroll your name to a guitar class.Or if you love to write you may join in a creative writing course.But start doing.I can tell you that you would feel really better.You will find your own world.
Please keep some time only for yourself from every day's routine.You would see that the dreams what were black and white turns into colorful gradually.
My all best wishes to all of you!
Anwesa
©Anwesa Chattopadhyay
A homemaker is someone who meticulously does regular works of household, takes care of her kids, husband, in laws simultaneously.Without she the home becomes somewhat like a desert.She is someone who fulfills the 'home' in the true sense.
But there is something to think, to discuss.You should devote your entire life to take care of your kids,husband and in laws.Is it right? I think it shouldn't.Because you are an individual yourself, that I already mentioned.You have dreams, passions, hobbies.There is only one life.Do something for your own pleasure too.(Please don't think that that I'm forbidding you to take care of them.I'm not that stupid.Never forget to do what is your duty.) Can you memorize what was your dream in student life? Or what were your passions?I know you can.Now stop dreaming and start pursuing.If you want to pursue higher academic degrees enroll yourself in open universities.Or if you want to play guitar you may enroll your name to a guitar class.Or if you love to write you may join in a creative writing course.But start doing.I can tell you that you would feel really better.You will find your own world.
Please keep some time only for yourself from every day's routine.You would see that the dreams what were black and white turns into colorful gradually.
My all best wishes to all of you!
Anwesa
©Anwesa Chattopadhyay
nice di...& very meaningfull.....n ur thinking about dis topic is just awsm...really our moms sumtym forget that they had many carzy drmz n passion....
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